James A. Midgley

Don't think of James as gone away. His journey's just begun. Life holds so many facets this earth is only one. Just think of him as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and years.Think how he must be wishing that we could know today how nothing but sadness can really pass away, and think of him AS LIVING IN THE HEARTS OF THOSE HE TOUCHED FOR NOTHING LOVED IS EVER LOST AND HE WAS LOVED SO MUCH. MAY GOD KEEP YOU IN HIS TENDER CARE. JoAnne and Sal DeMarco.

I can still remember it like yesterday, the first time that you came into my life. My parents were away, and everyone was getting bored of the girls night that we were having. So having one of my smart ideas, and inviting people over I never met before, had changed my life forever. In walked you, Brian, and Frank. That was one crazy night, and a start of a great friendship. Threw the years we have both witnessed each others up and downs, new relationships, broken hearts, successful moments, and much more. You were a great friend, and was always there for me no matter what. Thank you for being you, and making such a great impact on my life. Thank you for sticking by me when I needed a friend when I had Noah. Thank you 10xs more sticking by me threw all of that stuff that happened last year. You were the only friend who stuck by me, and didn't judge me for what was going on. I Love You with all of my heart, and I will never ever forget you. You were my best friend for many years, and your memory will always live on in my heat.

BRO,i will miss you so deeply that it will hurt forever.you were the kindest most stubborn person to ever grace this world,we will all miss your opinions and your kindness to all. People all over are missing you.life was just about to turn, a page that you would have loved so much,I know that where ever you are now love is in abundance .All the family miss you and want you to come home especially Mom and Dad.Love you BRO,Miss you BRO!!!

James, I am going to miss you so much! I still remember the first time I saw you... I loved your hair and your accent! I loved our deep Facebook IMs. : You were always so sweet and genuine! You were so supportive and interested in hearing about how Kaelyn was doing. I keep instinctively checking to see if you are online. : The world has lost a truly amazing and WONDERFUL person. I will never forget you! Love always, Sara

I will never forget you, and the many times at Hinella, your random text messages, your strong value on why you prefer cats over dogs, us always teasing each other, staying up all night, and our last day at AC. I'm really going to miss you. I wish I could havehad some more time with you. May you rest in peace.

James, I cannot believe you are gone! I am so saddened to hear the news. I thought of you so often since our days/nights at ICR and I only wish we could have gotten together again. My heart goes out to all of your family and friends and only hope and pray that you and they will find some peace in all of this. I will always remember you fondly and never forget that great accent that we loved hearing so much at ICR. Rest in Peace, my friend! Love always Your fellow ICR night-time supervisor, Karen Surprenant

James I watched you grow into a wonderful young man at ICR. I loved how you would say need anything else boss. You showed me respect throughout your years with us. You will be missed. My deepest condolences to the Midley family. God Bless, stay strong, you raised a wonderful son. Estelle Grizzaffi

Oh James! You brightened a room when you walked in. I'll always remember your smile and little twinkle in your eye. The world was waiting for you. My deepest sympathy to your family and friends. You will surely be missed.

I will miss seeing James every Friday at PJ's house. He worked so well with him and gave so much to the program. He was funny, sensitive, and always wanted to do the best for PJ and his family. I will miss his humor and his kindness. I will miss seeing him at our meetings. We will all miss him.

James, You will be missed by all of Auto, Here are just a few of many memory's. Josh: Im going to miss our debates, Your points so full of facts and mine so factless yet we could still go on for hours!! Vince: James I will never forget all the hours of yelling at each other the fights and the good times at the bar no one will ever replace you in any way. Jimmy Coach: Best CSA Ever! You still owe me lunch for fixing your hoopdee!!! Mike "Vamp": You will be missed! Carlos: descanze en paz y la paz del senor este con tu familia. Al: Scott Hartnell, You will be missed. Vance: James some dayin the after-life we will finally playing a game of tennis:. But for everyday I was blessed to spend with you I thought you were so strong that you can make it through whatever...it's just so hard to accept the fact that you're gone forever and I know a man aint supposed to cry, but its taken all the strength in my soul to say goodbye.

Though I just met you this semester, you clearly stand out in my mind. I am going to miss you sitting next to me in Greway's class. You were a bright and enthusiastic young man who would have made a great teacher. Thank you for always being a gentleman to me in class and for sharing your wonderful ideas with all of us. You will not be forgotten. Rest in peace James.

James was such a nice friend of my daughter Shannon Kepple-Sallas. She spoke very highly of him. I'm truly sorry to hear of his passing. Our heartfelt prayers come from our family to yours. God Bless You.

Nov 2nd 1991 James was Page boy at my wedding. James and my sister Leanne looked the perfect bride and groom...James lost the rings before we set off to church and his top hat was so big his face/eyes were a picture. This was my fondest memory of James. Although Leanne, mum and Steve have give us many more since. All our love to Auntie Marion Uncle Tony, Mark and Damon...Thinking of you all at this very sad time.

Happy Birthday Love. I know that you are in a better place now; rest in peace.

We remember James always taking the time to stop and talk to us when he came over to see the boys. He gave us a laugh everytime he did something different with his hair. We know you were proud of all his accomplishments and his desire to be a teacher. We were blessed having known James. Please know he will always be in our hearts.

James, We will always remember you !! Even though we haven't seen you for a while, we will always remember the kind, funny, handsome and polite person you are.. I can still remember the first time we met you, you rang our doorbell and asked Chris to come out and play. I can still remember your curly hair. I remember all the good times you guys had down the basement playing Nintendo with Chris, Frank, Brian, Drew, Dave and others. I remember the proms and when you guys gratuated from Township in 2001. I remember when you got your drivers license and how proud you were in your new silver car... We have so many memories.. Marian & Tony you raised a Great Son and James will always be remembered in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. James will always be with us in spirit and James will never be forgotten... James, Rest In Peace..

James was a wonderful young man and we so enjoyed having him worship with us at Grenloch.

I have and will always think of James. He was a very good friend and I wish we didn't lose touch through the years. James had a smile that could put one right back on your face. That is how I will remember him...through happiness. My prayers are with his family and friends. May he rest in peace.

I still can't believe you are gone. I will never forget the first day I meet you. You were just starting at Moorestown Auto and you were training and you turned on your charming accent and asked me what my name was. I thought who is this cheesy boy with a fake accent trying to pick me up at work. When I left sears you can in on your day off because you hadn't had a chance to get my number . There you were in that green army hat running around the store looking for me. Tuesdays and the occasional weds were my favorite day that year because I always had a standing date with you for those 6 months. I wish it hadn't ended the way it did and I do regret losing you as a friend. The world has def lost a wonderful smile with you gone. Your mom made me cry today when she brought up how you would say “that’s okay mom, rosie will bring me a salad” but it was true, I loved our lunch breaks. You will be missed by all whose lives you’ve touched.

I met James in my junior year of High School. He was a Senior and we sat next to each other in Mr. Fine's pre calc class. James always made me laugh in that horribly boring class. We've also been late night FB buddies, and he even had the ability to make me smile over typed conversations! James, you were an awesome person, anyone who's met you, is better for it, you've touched us all and you will be missed!!!

I met James in high school and we stayed in touch since then. I met him in French class; he had a magical quality about him. My junior year of high school was so special because of him. I will miss him. He was a wonderful person.

James Alexander Midgley, My life will never be the same without you. I canâ??t stop staring at my phone, forcing myself to accept the sad reality that I canâ??t just text you today. You were my first love; and indisputably made me the person that I am today in so many ways. To say the least James, this certainly is not how I expected life to turn out. But, I am so thankful that we have kept in touch over the years. You have always been there for me, through every major event in my life. No matter how things were between us, you were always there; ready to say anything just to make me happy. James, you were the only person that I would always run to. I thank you so much for the last time we spent together. You finally took me out to the fancy restaurant that you always said we would go to. You took me out dancing, just like I had always wanted. ï? And, then you held me all night long; and you told me how loved I was. I love so much and am so fortunate that I get to have that as my most recent memory of our time spent together. I am just so sorry that I was so distraught that night; and you were nothing but the loving, comforting, perfect gentleman that you are. And, that is just how I want to remember you. I want to remember your beautiful big brown eyes and your long curls, and your silly accent that would undeniably get stronger whenever you argued with me or whenever you first met someone new. I always loved the way you would say my name, and call me â??Kay-teeâ?. Iâ??m so glad that the last time I talked to you, I got to thank you for everything that you had given me. I hope that you realized how much I loved you, and still love you. Thank you for sharing your love with me, and literally showing me the world. Thank you for inviting me into your life and your family and home for two precious years of my life. And, in the past six years, not one day has passed that you were not exclusively entwined into my thoughts. Tomorrow will not change that. I will never forget you James, and I will always love you. I know that many people have loved you just the same as I did. I only wish I could be half the person that you were. Forever at Heart, Katie Lynn DeVaul

It's still hard to believe this isn't some elaborate joke. I've been sitting here reading all these entries for an hour trying to think of something to say. I'm mostly just angry with myself for losing touch just when he seemed to need it most. James was generous with friendship. Though years could pass, a chance meeting would spark the bond again, as if no time had gone by at all. His favorite topics of debate could last hours and usually did if you had enough energy to compete that is. Class was always boring until James chimed in with his unassailable opinions and charm. The time we spend with people is so precious because it's fleeting in nature. I admired James very much, espcially his love of his family. He spoke highly of you all and I believe he was always most genuine when it came to his relatives. You should be very proud of the loving soul James grew to be.

James was my student ten years ago for junior English at WTHS. Having taught for 25 years, I don't remember all of my students by name, but when I heard about James's passing, I remembered him immediately--his positive attitude, his charming accent, his excellent writing ability, and the red hair hair we had in common. He was a positive force in my first period class that year. I was sad to hear the news.

James, you were a brilliant, shining star. We shared a class at Rutgers and I remember the first time you spoke it was like poetry. Every word that came out of your mouth just flowed. I thought you were adorable. You will be greatly missed by family and friends that is for sure but you will also be missed by those who would have wanted to get to know the true, brilliant person that you were. I am saddened that I never got that opportunity. May you rest in peace and may your family find comfort in knowing how truly special you were.

During my three semesters at RU-Camden, the only class James and I had together was our freshman English class in the library’s meeting room. Many times he spoke to break the awkward silence. His oratorical skills were remarkable. But in those one and a half years, I don't think we knew any of each other's interests. One thing we did have in common was our friends in the library's lounge room where we’d all relax during lunch and between classes. James entertained us with his jokes. I'm not sure about my sense of humor, but I hope I made him laugh. But I'll never forget the last time I saw James. During our ‘02 fall semester, he, our friends and I had no free time to hang out in that lounge, yet he somehow discovered that I was transferring to RU-Newark in the spring. Before the winter break we had a chance encounter at the lounge and just wished each other well. I think he, our friends and I were expecting a reunion in the future. I just hope he knows that I consider him a friend.

Late nights in Avandale, AIM chats, Rowan Frats, 311, Justin Timberlake, Who likes who now? Burning hair ; many great memories bud. Lover you. xoxox

James...i will never forget the first time i met you a ICR and i thought u hated me..Then i colored u a picture of a carebear and we were instant best friends. I will miss all the trips to the philly diner at 3AM to get cheese steaks or the night before you were going on ur trip to england last year to visit your family...you and me and the other chrissy had such a great night..., hi nella, your cat ewakk, the katie times, your love for he young woman and all ur crazy jokes and dirty comments, all the times we spent just chillin in your basement stayin up all night cuddling and watching movies, i loved your cuddles.....i will always love you and miss you and untill the end of time i will always remember you my love...

To the Midgley Family, I just want to express my sincerest sympathy for the loss of your son, brother, brother-in-law,uncle. I knew James from his years at ICR. We supervised together and were both there until the "bitter end" when ICR closed down. I haven't seen him since then but thought of him often and wondered how he was doing. I am so sorry that I did not get to see him again! James was so smart and so unique! I know that he very much loved his family and hope you can find some comfort in that. Please let me know if there is anything you need. Sincerely, Karen Surprenant

This has been very hard for me to take in. From the days in Rutgers to the times at Sears we've been together for a lot of memories. I remember the times hen we all were together with your cousin, how excited you were to introduce me to your brother, having heated debates in the lunchroom at work both Deptford and Moorestown, at the bar laughing at something ridiculous that happened, or just talking privately about life when you were seeking advice. Your absence resonates with so many as you had such a positive influence in the lives of so many. From your glowing smile, your stuborness and strong opinions, to your warm jokes you will be missed by all. Little did I know that huge hug I gave you the last we parted would be the last know that you will never be forgotten. We the living will bear the burden of your absence and pray we see you in the afterlife for now you are under God's wing where nothing may harm you and life everlasting is your reward. Watch over us and guide us, especially your family with whom I offer my deepest condolences and regret, as we attempt to heal and learn to cope with our loss. You were a fantastic friend and will be missed very deeply.

You will be missed by all of us. Love you loads, from Mark, Michelle, Keegan your nephew and your nieces Rhiannon and Chantelle.

I love Uncle James and he used to put me on his shoulders. I love you Uncle James, and I love you so much and always love you.

I love Uncle James, and I always will love Uncle James.

I love my Uncle James, and I Love him forever and always will.

I must say I was both shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of "Master James". While having never met James, working with his father over many years I felt I knew him. I will very much miss hearing of his journey down the path of education and career. Seeing the pride of a father on his son's accomplishments is what I will always remember. My most heartfelt condolences to you Tony and your family.

This is so sureal. I will always remember your smile, your laugh, your humor. You were always there to make us smile when work was too stressful. I'll never forget our Sears days together, and how it was our group against the world! The late night walmart trip where we found out your insane love for honey nut cheerios, and diet Mountain Dew. James, you may be out of this world, but I have to beleive that you are in a good place, one filled with love and laughter. You will not be forgotten. To your family I can only send my condolences, but I know it is not enough. James I miss you.

I've known James for years between work and class. What a smart and positive guy. Things won't be quite the same without him. He will be missed.

I was shocked to hear about James' passing. James was extremely intelligent and opinionated, and I am thankful for being given the chance to know him. We dated for a while in high school...I must say it was his curly hair and accent that got me! ; Unfortunately we have fallen apart over the years since graduation, him staying home for school and I went away. He was a very good-hearted person and my condolances to his entire family.

James, We had so many amazing times together. Whether it be us laying in your basement watching Family Guy and other cartoons, or ditching work at Sears to find something better to do. You were a great person and an amazing shopping partner. I will miss our late night texts and the funny way you said some words. You were taken way too soon but I guess life is like that sometimes. I love you and you will always be in my heart. Stay good James.

James, we didn't talk much, but when we did you would undoubtedly make me smile. I will never forget our perfect days at the beach. I miss you. Condolences to your family and friends.

James, I can't believe you are really gone.. I keep hoping that I'm going to wake up and it's all gonna be a bad dream.. \= I met you my freshman year of highschool when you went with me to my very first school dance.. that was 11 years ago, and we have made so many memories together since then.. all of our trips to Stone Grille, Landmark, PJ's, hanging out @ your pool, going shopping together you always picked out the cutest outfits for me hanging out in Doug's basement, watching movies together, you giving me advice about guys..thanks for introducing me to Doug by the way - you knew we would be perfect for each other \= and we will always be grateful for that You were a great friend and were always there when I needed someone to talk to. I wish you didn't have to leave us so soon - I'm so sad that we won't get to hang out again - Our group will never be the same again without you there. I'm sorry that we didn't get to spend as much time together recently as we used to.. and I wish I could go back and change that \= Every single one of your friends is very lucky to have known you and had you in their lives. You were truly one of a kind. I will never ever forget you sugar... Love Always and forever, Krissy X-tina as you ALWAYS called me - haha - i will miss that too!

I had several classes with James at Rutgers. He was brilliant and an inspiration on so many levels. I feel privileged to have known him. All of my thoughts and love to his friends and family...

We all will miss you. My prayers go out to his family and friends!

oh, Jamisonnick name used to call him. We miss you so much. I will never forget the craziness that happened at sears deptford. And those time at washington way. Oh and the random trip to walmart, trying on elmo halloween costume in the isle. You hold a special place in my life. Even though you are gone, no one will ever be able to forget how amazing you were.

I worked with James at Sears for the past year. He was a vibrant person, and so intelligent. He'd give me tips on the classes I should and shouldn't take since we both attended Rutgers and I was still an Undergrad in History and we were both studying to be teachers, we had a lot in common and I enjoyed working with him, even when he was being *inappropriate* which meant he was flirting me--it was our inside joke at work. I will miss him very much. My consolences for you loss. I am so very sorry.

I will miss your crazy text messages and all the funny things that you shared with me!! Ill miss your smile & seeing you out @ the bars. <3

I will miss your crazy text messages and all the funny things that you shared with me!! Ill miss your smile & seeing you out @ the bars. <3

I am going to miss our facebook chats. i was looking forward to seeing you at christmas and taking you out round town. Miss you.

I miss you so much, cant believe you are gone, its not fair. i cant belive that i am never going to get the chance to give you one of my famous piggy backs that use to have our mums in stiches. love you and miss you, my little baby cuz cuz.

Love you James... \=

LOVE YOU BRO,MISS YOU BRO!!!!

James, You displayed a certain kind of maturity that features kindness and joy. It seems to be rare nowadays and even rarer among our generation. I hope I can possess that maturity soon. And I hope heaven is waiting for me. I don't want to remember you as that kind young man in the library forever.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.