So many great memories of such a fantastic women. The one that sticks out is the night the car got towed while we were in Shampoo night club. Mary had to come get us in the Escalade and we went to Kensington to retrieve the car. I remember the tow truck guy was out so we had to drive around, stopped at a gas station that had bullet proof thick glass. Not funny at the time atleast Mary didn't think so but def. a great memory. Rest in peace Toni and baby Ryan and may you both dance with the angels and look down upon us.
Donato-Bolis Families - I know the pain I feel for the horrible loss, I can't imagine the pain you all are feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.Toni I only became friends with you this last few years but i felt like i knew you my entire life, that was the kind of person you were. You loved everyone, you never stopped smiling and you were truly an angel on earth. You will be missed. I know you are at peace and that Daddy D is taking good care of you and your little angel RJ. <3 Our hearts are broken. RIP Toni and baby Ryan
You are in our hearts forever Toni.
Love and Prayers to Eric, Mia, and all of the Bolis and Donato families.
Steve and Corky Shanline
Sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Toni u came into my life & changed it 4ever.We became close when sharing our pregnancies & griped to each other as well as celebrated w/each other.We felt guilt of not breast feeding enough & frustration over having toddlers climbing into our beds.U supported & empathized w/every struggle in parenting that we have experienced in these short 3 yrs.Toni I NEED you.I NEED you cry with me when our girls go to school for the first time.I NEED to see 10,000 pictures of Mia on her pre-k graduation.I NEED u to make me feel guilty for giving my girls regular ketchup instead of organic. My girls need their Aunt Toni & baby RJ to satisfy their wanting me to have another baby.U were my best friend in parenthood,I have no other friend that has shared this much this far with me.I NEED you to know I am a better person because I knew you.For the millions of times you told me I need you to know YOU were an amazing mom.Please continue to be by my side when I need you most. I LOVE you, lil mama.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
My deepest sympathy to the entire Donato and Bolis families and also all of Toni's friends. My heart breaks for this horrific tragedy. May Toni and baby Ryan rest in peace and may her memory live on through her beautiful daughter, Mia. Life is too short so live everday to the fullest and have no regrets cause you never know the day or hour when gone. God bless everyone affected by this horrible accident.
I am going to miss you so much Toni. I was blessed to know such a wonderful person. You have touched so many hearts in your life. You will always be remembered as someone great. Your heart and spirit will live on through your beautiful daughter, your family, and your friends. I will remember you in only the best of times we shared together. I will never forget you and will pray for your family and friends. I will miss you here and now and know we will meet up again one day. XOXO
Whether a person knew you for years or minutes, you always seemed to make a lasting impression. You and RJ were taken way to soon and will be missed greatly.
I did not know Toni personally, but have mutual friends in common. I have never been so touched by the amount of love and hurt that the loss of Toni and her baby has caused. I shed tears for her and her family as if I, myself lost a loved one. May god bless Toni's family and give them the strength to be strong, for her beautiful daughter that was brought to this earth to carry on her legacy.
"It well may be that we will never meet again, in this lifetime, so let me say before we part, so much of me, is made from what I've learned from you, you'll be with me, like a handprint on my heart"
There are no words large enough to even come close to how very, very sorry I am for the loss of your beautiful daughter, mother, wife, and sister and her precious baby boy. May God bless you all and give you the strength to pull you through this. Toni may be gone but there is no doubt she will never, ever be forgotten.
You were such a kind and loving person,you will be missed by so many,RIP sweetie!
We will miss Toni and know that her spirit lives on through her family. All our love and prayers XO
We are praying for every comfort you need.
May the Lord show you the way.
Wishing you All Peace and Love Mr.and Mrs.R. Chamberlain
Words cannot express how heartbroken we are with the loss of Toni and her son.Our prayers are with all of you .
Anita & Anthony Ciccotta and Family
Mary and Charlie, Ben and I are so sorry for your loss. We feel your pain, and our hearts are broken for you both. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
I haven't seen Toni for years. We had commented about getting together to catch up, like so many lost friends say after reconnecting via facebook. Sadly, we never did. Toni was one of VERY few people in this world of whom I have no negative memories. I'll miss her ever-cheerful family updates. I am saddened that I won't be able to honor her memory in person. I will do my best to honor her from afar-I will share the lessons learned through this awful tragedy with everyone I can down here in TX. Toni, you've touched more people than you could have ever known.
Eric & Mai my prayers are with you both. Toni will be surely missed, by so MANY.She touched people in ways,with her kind & loving heart, we will never forget her. Thank you all for being best friends with my childern Jenni & TJ. We all love you.
Toni, I feel so blessed to have had the opputunity to know you & grow a friendship over the past few years with you. You are sincerely the most loving, caring & sweetest person I know. I can't thank you enough for welcoming me & my family into your life & always giving me such motivation with your kind words & just sending a text to say hi. I will really miss our playdates & conversations & sharing stories about our kids & watching them play together. I will truly cherish our friendship forever & you and your sweet baby boy, Ryan will always have a piece of my heart. You were truly an amazing friend & most importantly such a devoted wife to Eric & mother to Mia. You are an inspiration to everyone & you touched the lives of so many & I don't think you ever realized it. I'll miss all of your pictures on facebook & seeing what Miss Mia was up to all the time. I will miss you so much!!!!!! RIP to a beautiful friend that we were all robbed short of. Love you girl <3
I don't know your family or Toni, I'm just a young father of 2 that lives near pitman downer rd and Im just sick over your loss. That easily could have been my wife and child...I'm so sorry for all of you...
My deepest sympathies to you and your family, Rick. You'll be in our thoughts and prayers.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dear Mary and Charles:
No words can express our deepest sympathy for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lou and Marie Borella
To the Entire Donato- Bolis Family
I was blessed to know tony from elemenatry school. She was the sweetest person always with a smile on her face. I will never forget her laugh and her spirit. My heart and prayers are with you all this difficult time. May the lord strengthen you all. Heaven has 2 angels now .
I was blessed have known Toni since elementary school when my mom would take me to Toni's after school for "play dates", and although we drifted apart over the years, every time we saw each other Toni treated me like we'd never skipped a beat. I had just recently reconnected with her thanks to her sister Angela. Toni was the most sincere, genuine, nicest person to everyone she met. She was a beautiful wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend. God bless Eric, Mia, and the entire Donato and Bolis families during this difficult time. Heaven has 2 new angels.
Mary & Family My deepest sympathy to you all. My heart breaks for all of you. I will always pray for you & your family for God to give you the strength.
Roseangela & Pete Cotellese
Toni there are no words for what happened,but may you and your beautiful baby boy Ryan rest in gods arms.Bless you and your beautiful family always!xoxo
My heart goes out to the Bolis and Donato family, as a hospital employee I can truely tell you nothing has ever upset the hospital staff as much as this tragedy. God bless everyone of you through this hard time, I didnt know Toni but everytime I think or read about this tragedy, I cry myself, may God embrace you all and help you keep your strength through this difficult time.
I'm so lucky that I was able to get to know Toni over the years. She was a beautiful, sweet, and genuine person. Her love for her family, friend, husband, and daughter were shown in everything that she did. The world will not be the same without her, but her memory will live on through all the people that cared about her. Love you, Liz
You all know me as Jeanas mom-Pat. Although I only knew Toni for 3 years, i loved her. Her loving spirit, made you feel like you knew her your entire life. Toni lived life to the fullest, and loved unconditionally. My prayers are with you all that knew her. RIP Toni with RJ in your arms and your angels by your side. Always in my heart my friend, Pat
I did not personally know Toni, but many of my friends were close to her. Through facebook I saw many pictures of Toni. You could just tell that she was a beautiful person and that she loved her friends, family, and especially enjoyed being a mommy. I found out that Toni also lived up the street from my parents and I feel it would have only been a matter of time before our paths crossed. My heart breaks that the world has lost such a lovely person and I never had the opportunity to get to know her. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to everyone this tragedy has affected. It has made me realize how fragile our lives are and how they can be taken in an instant. I am forever changed and in Toni's memory I will try to live my life to the fullest as we all should, not sweat the small stuff, and make more of an effort to be a cautious driver. I know her memory will live on in all the lives of those she has touched and those that were touched by what has happened. God bless.
Love and Miss you Toni!!! Im gonna take good care of Nicole I promise!!!
xoxoxo Steve
My deepest deepest condolences to the family. Our daughter has the pleasure of having Angela as a teacher and the entire class is very sad for her and her family.
Toni,
I know you are looking down on all your family and friends keeping them safe and blessing them with beautiful days to come. I know we weren't close but i always thought of you as a great person, that always lit up a room. You truly will be missed, and my prayers are with your family. You and your son smile down on us and keep the sun shining through the dark.
Please know that you are in heart and in my prayers. Remember Toni and RJ will be your special angels and will watch over you forever. My deepest sympathy to you all.
As a mom and grandmom my heart goes out to your family and friends. In just a few seconds 2 beautiful lives were taken and in those seconds everyone in this town and not ever meeting you fell in love with you and you baby...Prayes go out to your husband, liitle girl and your family and friends... May you R.I.P.Sweet Toni and Baby Ryan...
You are with me everyday,
I feel you with every breath,
Your thought is with me,
With every decision I make.
You have been with me until now,
And it is hard to face,
That you are finally gone,
And I will never see you again.
Your hands, your touch, your smile,
Are things I will never forget,
All the love you shared with me,
And all the tears and pain you made go away.
In our short time together,
All the memories we had,
Will last in my heart,
Those memories I will never forget.
Although you have left,
Now you walk above,
You are always with me,
I'm always surrounded by your love.
Now you don't have to worry,
For your love will be passed on,
‘Cause even though you left me,
You are Always in my Heart.
Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. Caring thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Love Aunt Mil and Uncle Ray
Toni, I still don't want to believe that this is real and I just want to wake up from this horrific nightmare. You are my best friend,the sister that I really always wanted. I will always cherish every memory we had together, and I will make sure Mia grows up knowing what an amazing, vibrant, smart woman you were and how much her Mommy loved her. I find comfort and peace looking at that little face b/c she's you all the way. You and baby Ryan watch over us all. I am so happy I got to see you that night, I just keep thinking that if I would of just talked to you for just 5 more minutes you might still be here. I love you momma!!! And I love you Baby Ryan RIP, I will always take care of Eric, Mia and your sisters. I know thats what you would of wanted.
Angela and Family,
There are no words to express the sadness. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Michelle and Steve DiRico
Dear Charles, Mary, Aunt Sue and the entire Donato and Bolis famalies, My heart is so saddened by your unimaginable tragedy. May God grant you the strength to go forward and cherish the memories of your loved ones. God Bless.
To the Donato and Bolis family,
I am deeply sorry for the loss of what I see was a great woman, mother, daughter, sister and friend. I never knew Toni but from I have read she was an amazing person. I am truly at a loss for words for the loss of Toni and Ryan. Although the pain you feel is so strong know that they will always be there in spirit to watch over everyone. They will be yours angels to guide you through everything. All my love to you all.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
You dont know me but I have been reading about this tragic event. Being a new father myself I cant fathom this ordeal. I would like to tell your family that I will pray for you all daily and pray for strength and comfort. Just know God will be with you all.
My condolence to Toni husband and bought familys this is the sadess thing I have heard, There are no words I can say. <3
My heart goes out to Charly and Mary and the entire family. After searching for the right words to say, I realized that there are no "right" words to say for a loss as grand as this. My prayers are with you and may God give you strength to get through each and every day.
Donna,my heart breaks for you and your families. Hopefully all of our prayers will help to hold you up through the rough times ahead. May God's loving hand be on you all.
Love Kate
I love you my beautiful angel. You truly were an angel on earth, all that was missing was your wings. You got them too soon and my heart is broken. You were my best friend and sister for 15 years and will be until the day I get my own wings.
I didn't know Toni very well, however, we had a mutual friend, Desiree, in high school. I later came to find out that we had mutual cousins as well. Anytime I was in Toni's prescience she treated me warmly, her kindness was genuine. I haven't seen Toni in years, but we had connected on myspace, and later on Facebook. I enjoyed looking at her pics and laughed at the sheer volume of them she took of her beautiful little girl; very evident was the fact the Toni was a loving mom! My heart goes out to her family, and to Holly. I hope they will share Toni'is story with whoever will listen, hopefully preventing this immeasureable loss from happening to another family. I'm so sorry for everyone that loved Toni, I hope that the day will come where the joy from the wonderful experiences and memories youve made with Toni, will overshadow the pain of her passing.
I didn't know Toni very well, however, we had a mutual friend, Desiree, in high school. I later came to find out that we had mutual cousins as well. Anytime I was in Toni's presence she treated me warmly, her kindness was genuine. I hadn't seen Toni in years, but we had connected on myspace, and later on Facebook. I enjoyed looking at her pics and laughed at the sheer volume of them she took of her beautiful little girl; very evident was the fact the Toni was a lovingmom! My heart goes out to her family, and to Holly. I hope they will share Toni''s story with whoever will listen, hopefully preventing this immeasureable loss from happening to another family. I'm so sorry for everyone that loved Toni, I hope that the day will come where the joy from the wonderful experiences and memories youve made with Toni, will overshadow the pain of her passing.
Siamo profondamente dispiaciuti per la perdita di Toni e del piccolo Ryan.Ci mancherà moltissimo,portiamo con noi il ricordo del viaggio in Italia.Addio angeli del paradiso.
My heart goes out to all who knew Toni. I am Maria & Nicole Lannuttis cousin. Even though I didn't know Toni well, I feel your hurt. My prayers will be said for Her for along time. My the Lord be with Her.
My sincere condolences on the loss of your wife and baby boy. I did not know your family, but as a mother my heart breaks for all of you.
We are so sorry for the loss of cousin Toni and baby Ryan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Ken
Toni,
You are such a beautiful inside and out. I am honored that I had you in my life... Your smile was so bright it warmed the room... R.I.P. Toni and RJ... God has two beautiful Angels up there... You will truly be missed.. I still can't get over it...love you
We are thinking of you and praying for you always at this difficult time
I met Toni years ago when my brother dated her best friend Holly. Anytime Jeff had his little sis tagging along & we were around Toni, she beamed with her big smile & infectious laugh. The Donato's ALWAYS welcomed me in their house & never spared on having pounds of food waiting to be eaten by any unexpected guest who stopped by! From the moment I saw Toni’s walk-in closet I knew we’d get along; a girl can NEVER have too many shoes! My dad painted Toni & Eric's house & had done other painting jobs for both the Donato's & DelBrocco's over the years. I did not know Toni as well as most, but I promise Toni & Ryan's death will not be in vain. I now have a personal mission to reach as many people with her story & what unimaginable pain & suffering comes from a decision that so many others are making every day. I do not have children of my own yet, but my children will one day know of Toni and Ryan Bolis. As much as Toni impacted all of us alive, her impact with continue from heaven.
If we could all be half the mother, sibling and friend as you were to everyone, we could make this world a better place. Thank you for making an impact on this earth and continue to shine down your light from above. May peace be with you and RJ.
There are no words which can adequately express my feelings for you and your family with this tragic loss. I hope that the many wonderful memories that you have of your sister Toni will provide some comfort to you as you deal with her loss and that of her baby. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have my most heartfelt sympathy.
My thoughts and Prayers go Out to everyone with whom we had the Privelege to Know Toni and her Beautiful Family, I will never forget what a CLOSE and deep Love She had for life and for her family, im honored to meet her and work with her Mother and Aunt....Love you all so much. God Bless you Toni for you are in His Kindom with your Beautiful Baby, we will keep your memory ALIVE..
Tanya Macys Deptford
I don't know what anyone can say to comfort you at this most difficult time. I want you to know that you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers.
I would not even know where to begin on how or what to say to offer any comfort. I never met Toni, but my mom & I worked with Sue at the elections for the past several years, her "girls" were her life! Many funny stories were shared during those elections.
My heart felt sorrow to Sue,the Donato, the Coccia and the Bolis families, especially to Eric!
I could not even imagine! God Bless all of you during this time!
We we so shocked and saddened to hear of this tragedy. Our hearts and thoughts are with all of you.
Dennis and Bonnie Kelly
Dear Eric and Mia, Charlie, Mary, Annette, Angel and all of your family and friends, Our hearts ache for your loss. It was a blessing to know Toni. You all are in our prayers. Love, Robin & Frank Butrey
There are no words to express how much my heart aches for all of you. I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My Chaquita.....
15 years. Thats a long time, a lot of memories, phone calls, smiles, stories, arguments and make ups. I can bet that there wasn't ONE day in all that time that your name didn't leave my lips at least once. You were a staple in my teenage years, a sister to so many of us, a vision of light when we were in a dark place. A smile...always a smile.
I can't even begin to tell you how I feel right now, because it's not real to me yet. It breaks my heart to know that I'll never hear you call me Chaquita again. To know that I'll never get to snuggle that baby boy of yours. To see the "love you" at the end of our daily chats. My heart breaks for your family, as I knew what you were to every one of them. The best and most loving daughter, sister, wife, mother, and so much to so many others.
You will forever be with me, in my heart, in my greatest memories....I love you Chaquita. Always.
Dear Mary & Charles & extended family. Although I have moved from the Wash. Twp. area, your Family & your Sister Annettes Family were always on my mind, and my Daughter Angela always kept me informed on how everyone was doing. It's been 3 days since my Daughter informed me of this tragedy, and I just can't seem to shake it off. I hadn't seen Toni in awhile, but Ange showed me pics on her computer, she really grew up to be a beautiful woman and Mother. No words can express the sorrow and pain. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers,and may God bless you and continue to give you strength. please accept my sincerest condolences at this time. Susie
Dear Mary,Charles, Annette, Angel, Eric,Mia and all of your family, I am so sorry to hear about Toni and the Baby. My heart is aching for you all. You know my prayers and thoughts are with you all at this most difficult time. Toni was just beautiful... like all of your family...God will help you, please just trust Him now. Remember this is not the end you will see them both again. I love you All...Mae & Family
To the Donato, Bolis and Coccia Families my deepest most heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. This is truly a horrific tragedy one that should have never happened. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. You all have a very special guardian angel actually two to always watch over and guide you.
To the Bolis, Coccia & Donato Families: There are no words to express how sorry I am to hear of this tragedy.May the love and support of your family and friends help you get through the days ahead. May God bless you, may He wrap his arms around you today and always.
you were one of the most amazing people i have ever met... u were taking way to soon...ill never forget you toni and how u coould light up a room...u truly were amazing <3 ill forever miss you and love you <3
Dear Angela and family: I was so saddened by the loss of your sister and daughter. You and your family are in my prayers. May God give you the strength to get through this terrible tragedy!
When I received a call yesterday from Toni's grandmother Sue I was in such a state of shock I didn't know what to say. Sue Lives for her grandchildren and is so proud of each and every one of them. My heart and love goes out to the entire family. Love Julie
Mary & Charles and Family: We are so very very sorry for your loss, there is
no way I can tell you how deeply sorry we are. We have never met Toni but I feel like I knew her so well by keeping in contact and seeing all the family photos on FB.
To the Donato and Bolis families my heart aches for you. I pray that God comforts you and keep you in perfect peace during this difficult time. God Bless.
Annette, Eric, Little Mia & Family: Words cannot express the sadness my heart feels. Please know that I have you and your family in my prayers. God Bless...Sandy
My deepest sympathy to the entire Donato family, Bolis family and Holly. I'm so sorry for your loss and may god bless you all. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
I met Toni through one of her best friends, my niece Jenni. WOW!...Toni opened her heart and her home to me as though we had known each other forever. To all of her friends and family, my deepest condolences. Toni's memory will live on through each and every life that she touched.
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Donato and Bolis family. Mary and Angie you and your family are in my prayers.
I meet your daughter through my daugher Angela many years ago.
My prayers are with your family
at this difficult time . There are no words to discribe the sorrow I have for your family.If I can be of any help to you please do not hesitate to call
Sicerly
Joe Difranceisco
Township Glass
Words cannot express the sadness in my heart upon hearing of Toni and Ryan's passing. I remember Toni's smile from when I taught her in 4th grade. She touched so many lives and continues to do so now. May you find peace in the memories that you hold in your heart. You are all in my prayers.
With Sympahy,
Chris Gormly Alcavage
To Mary and Charles.. The Donato and Bolis family.. there are no words..just think both of your babies are now angels in a wonderful place and will always be with you and your family in your heart and soul watching over all of you forever! Stay together and be strong through this all..you are such a beautiful family! Xoxo
Gina Macys deptford
I graduated high school with Toni and have not seen her since our 4 years of homeroom together, but have had the pleasure of seeing her life in pictures on Facebook. I am sick at how a life being so beautifully lived can be taken. My heart goes out to the Donato and Bolis family and I will pray that you all find the strength to move forward.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. We didn't know Toni, but her story has touched our hearts.
Dear Mary & Charlie:
Growing up in Packer Park, knowing of the
beautiful Coccia family and later in life having
met Charlie at Short Hills Deli in Cherry Hill, I know what a heavenly universe you both have
created....may you feel and know the love of
your daughter Toni each and every time you
look into Mia Rose's eyes...you will see her
heart and your daughter's heart within.
May the Lord our God never leave your side
right now and may He give you the graces
to keep you the strongest you've ever been
Sincerely,
Mr. & Mrs. John Terry Caffarelli Donato
loving family you folks have created...
Toni, I am in disbelief that you left this world so soon. You and your son are angels in heaven. My deepest heartfelt sympathy for those you left behind. May the comfort of God help the Bolis and Donato family during these profound losses.
I have been trying for severals days to try and find the words to express my grief over such a senseless tragedy There are none. I met Toni at a picnic when she was not quite 3 years old, and Mary was chasing her with a potty chair. Oh my what a beautiful woman she grew to be. I had only to check facebook everyday to see all the photos she posted. She was so happy. Eric, Mia, Mary, Charlie,Annette, Angel,and all Toni's family and friends, I believe one thing. As your heart is broken you have only to stop and listen and you will hear Toni and baby Ryan right beside you telling you how to go on.
I feel like I still have no words. You are missed every single day. It has been a week now and I can't stop thinking of our memories and your family as well as all of our friends. I still can't get over the ice cream shop story that Father John decided to tell in front of an entire church full of people. But...we got in trouble...that's what we knew best! But we knew how to love and share great memories as well. All of the Donato's and Bolis' are in my thoughts and prayers. Eric - we all wish we could just take away your pain and carry it with us as Holly said it best but Mia will know what a wonderful mother she had. Your memory will never fade Toni. You will be here with us always and we love you dearly!
Wonderful person and family. Our prayers for all the people affected by this tragedy.
I never met your precious loved one. I work at Garden State Ob/Gyn and I am aware of your loss. I've have prayed for your family and will continue as often as God brings you to mind. I'm at loss for words except to say I'm sorry.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Donato/Bolis family. I met Toni about 2yrs ago when my BFF Kate had her twins girls. Toni was also so happy and treated you like you were her family. Always gave a hug and a kiss hello and "goodbye sweetheart." I can't imagine the pain your feeling, but know your all in my prayers and may Toni and Baby RJ rest peacefully. Eric and Mia...stay strong and remember God has a plan for everything just sometimes we can not figure it out and we never will understand why Toni and RJ...with deepest sympathy, Lauren Z.
To the Family of Toni Bolis: I did not know Toni, but, this story is so tragic...I just wanted to let you know that your family is in my prayers. May God give you the strength you need to heal and know she and baby Ryan are always with you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Toni, we have known each other and been friends since we were little. The news of losing you has shattered my heart entirely. You were an absolutely amazing person. Beautiful inside and out. A spirit that people loved being around, and wished they could have. You were entirely genuine and had the biggest heart of gold. It was a gift and a pleasure to have had you in my life. My heart and prayers go out to you, your family, your friends, and your baby with you in heaven. You will be truly missed.
Mary,
I am so very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I worked with you and Annette at Macys in Hamilton Mall and remember Toni. Words cannot express how I feel for you and everyone in your family. Just want you to know I will pray for you and you are all in my heart. With deepest sympathy, Maria
I can't stop thinking about Toni, Baby Ryan,Eric and family. You all are constantly in my thoughts and will always be in my prayers.
to tonis family words cant say how sorry i am for your loss...its been almost two months and i still have troubles dealing with her loss...for the people who knew her toni was the kindiest,loving,caring and such an amazing woman.she has touched so many lives and i will never forget you girl.thank you also for loving my son i will never forget all the fun times we had at my sewell house..love you toni..and eric and mia im sorry for your loss also just remember toni is watching and is with you at all times..
After reading the article in the newspaper the other morning I was filled with such sadness for all the family members who are suffering in this tragedy of their loving Toni and Ryan. May GOD be your comfort during this most difficult time and know that HE is with you ALWAYS! Toni and Ryan are safe in spiritual rest and Toni is watching over her loved ones in a beautiful and awesome light! Take comfort that life exists beyond this world with Our Heavenly Father and someday we will all share in what Toni and Ryan are basking in! The unconditional love and warmth of a beautiful Father who loves us more than any words could express! Keep the faith in GOD above and NEVER lose HOPE!
Mary and Charles
I hope the love and support of your family and friends will help you to know that your family is loved and cared about. The many condolence wishers who attended Tony's memorial is a testimony of the fine, beautiful woman you both raised and how she touched so many lives. There is no logical explaination or reasoning except that God wanted his two angels home. There can be greater hurt than that of grieving parents. As time passes I hope each day will fill all of you both and your girls with some peace and acceptance.
although i did not know toni... words can not express how this senseless tragedy has taken such a wonderful person and her baby boy! i read through all of these with tears in my eyes and hope that her husband daughter mother father sisters family and friends can find the strength to get through this. like i said i did not know toni but just reading all the beautiful words everyone wrote of her she would want nothing less then to surround you all with her love now and give you that strength. may God bless Toni baby Ryan and all of you. RIP Toni n Baby Ryan
Toni I knew you in high school, then we graduated and never heard from each other until we reconnected through FB. I love looking at your pictures of your family, friends, and especially of you, your husband and little Mia. You were loved by so many people and we will never forget you and baby Rj. R.I.P TONI & RJ <3
I know I didn't know you personally, but you married one of my closest friends growing up. I am so sorry Eric for your loss and as a father myself I can't imagine what your going through. I know we haven't talked in awhile but I want you to know I am here for you and your family. I wish I knew what to say, but I don't think words can help other than they will always be with you. Please call me i love you! 856-472-1550
I did not know Toni but this story has touched me in many ways. When I heard the story on the news my eyes filled with tears. I cannot imagine how her family and friends feel. She has impacted so many people that didn't know her. Hopefully people will not text while driving and people will wake up. My deepest sympathy. RIP Toni and baby Ryan
To the Bolis & Donata Families: Please accept our deepest sympathies, there are truly no words to express this horrible tragedy that has affected your families and the entire community. May your memories always bring your comfort and know that your are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless and Keep you All.
I didn’t know Toni very well but I will pray for the family to find comfort someday. This is such a tragedy and life isn’t not always what we expect it to be and within seconds life can be forever changed. I know the family will keep Toni’s memory alive and her daughter will know the great wife, mother and daughter she was. Eric, I am so sorry the lost of your wife and unborn child. My heart truly aches for you. I want you to know I am here if you should need to talk. Stay strong for your child and I want to tell you that you will survive this journey of grief. My deepest sympathy to the whole family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time in your life.
Toni
I am sorry I could not be there to say goodbye to you. I will never forget our last conversation. You have truly touched me and my life. I can not believe you had to leave this world so soon, its not fair. To the Donato/Bolis family my prayers are with you all.
My deepest sympathies to the Bolis & Donato Families. I am a friend of Annette's from college and always remember her sharing stories of her and her sisters. Annette, you have such an admirable inner strength -- I know that will shine through and help bring you and your family comfort.
My thoughts and Prayers are with Toni's family. Not knowing Toni or the family my Heart is sadden by the Tragedy that happen to Toni and her Son. May God's Love bring Peace to your Family. Rest in Peace
I did not know Toni at all, but after hearing the story on the news, I felt I had to let her family know that there are numerous people thinking of them right now and hoping they can get through this awful tragedy. May she and RJ rest in peace, and may the family be lifted by fond memories of a woman so loved and cherished.
To the Bolis and Donato Families,
Please know how many lives Toni touched in the time she was with us. She was truly an angel here with us, sent by the Lord to make those around her better. She and her son are not gone, but rather home with Him. Take comfort in knowing how much they were loved and how many will miss them and keep their memory alive.
All of our prayers, thoughts, and love are with you all during this time.
~William & Angela Payne
I did not know Toni or her family,but her and baby RJ's story touched my heart.Today my family wore green in her memory and thought of her often.May Toni's family and friends find comfort in their memories and in God's strengh. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Muccigrosso Family
Greenville,SC formerly Mantua Twp.residents
To The family and to her Husband Eric, I do not know you but I send my sympathies to you all, I hope that you find the inner strength to get you through such an awful tragedy. I too, have recently lost my husband at a young age due to different circumstances, but sudden nonetheless. We have two children under the age of 13. Mia Rose will be the reason that you get up each day; she will be the one that will help you through the rest of your life. You will find the strength from within to cope each day. I will pray for all of you as you struggle with Toni and Ryan's death. Please know Eric, that there are so many people thinking of you because many of us are dealing with the same tragedy you are; the death of a very loved spouse and best friend. May God Bless you and Mia.
Toni and I met about 12-13yrs ago during High School. We have shared so many memories over the years. We became so close she used to call me her mini-me and I called her big-me. It was a name that stuck until she had her own mini-me Mia..she was a very loving, caring person to every person that walked into her life. She was the most amazing friend, wife, mother, sister, daughter, and granddaughter anyone could ask for. I am really going to miss her! My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Rest in Peace Toni and baby Ryan
Mary and Charlie,
My deepest sympathy go out to you, your daughters, son-in-law, grand-daughter and entire family for the loss of your beautiful daughter Toni and grand-son Ryan. May God give all of you strength each and every day.
dear Charlie and Mary and family may God help you and give you the faith and strength during this time. You are a very close and loving family
God bless all of you
Donna Masseys Mother nanny Davis
Dear Mary and Family. You are in my heart and prayers. My deepest sympathy goes out to all the family for the loss of Toni and Baby Ryan. I am sure that your two angels will be watching over the family. I know it will be hard but with Gods help you will get through this. Love to all of you.
My Toni... i still have absolutely no idea what i am doing here writing on this page as it still seems to surreal. I just keep reading everyone's comments about you and thinking it's so much more... multiply it by infinity, and take it to the depth of forever and still they will never know how truly wonderful you are! I will miss you, your smile and you always calling me momma... as you always felt like another daughter to me and i've always loved like one and always will! I know you have taken RJ beyond the Gates of Heaven and you both have spread your wings around us all! I love you both!!!
We didn't know Toni personally, but knew of her genuine love and joy that she brought to those who loved her. Toni touched our family's heart in our most darkest of days and we will never forget her kindness.
We send our deepest condolences to Eric and Mia Rose as well as the Donato and Bolis families.
We join with countless others in prayer for peace and healing for all those who mourn.
Love never dies.
We were shocked and so deeply grieved to hear of Toni's passing. The outpouring of support that came to the viewing last night is a true testament to the love that emanated from this family. There are no words that will take away your family's sadness and grief right now, but time will pass and the memories will flourish. We are so sorry for this loss. God grant us all some serenity, in time. With love, Bob and Karin Finizio
I am so sorry for the loss of Toni and baby Ryan. My heart goes out to her family and friends. Toni was a beautiful woman both inside and out. Even though we haven't spoke since highschool I can still remember her smile, her laugh and her heart of gold. My heart breaks for you and for your family. I pray that your family and friends will have the strength to keep on going. We have gained two beautiful angels to look over us and keep us safe. Go now, Rest in Peace and know that you and your baby boy will be missed and loved by many....
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.