Keshava A H Reddy

Keshava A.H. Reddy

July 25, 1930 to December 21, 2024

On December 21, 2024 of Washington Twp. Age 94. Beloved husband of Vishala. Devoted father of Vanaja Reddy, Shobha Reddy, Kalpana Reddy, and Chitra Reddy.

We miss you so much everyday.  We want to take this time to honor how wonderful our Daddy is.  He is such an amazing Dad and Husband.  We will always remember how hard you worked your entire life to achieve so much and you are always so humble and never flaunted anything.  We are so proud to call you our Daddy.

Our Dad grew up in a village in India, went to medical school, came on a boat to a foreign land, and along with our Mom made a life for all of us.   We are so beyond words what our parents did.  We are in awe everyday.

Our Dad used to untangle our hair when we were younger, he was so patient and so meticulous.  We remember the car rides we would take with him to drop my sisters to college every weekend or every other weekend, and when he would drop us to college as well.  He showed up for every concert, back to school night, and everything in between.

We remember when our Dad, Mom, and two sisters Shobha and Vanaja went to Atlantic City and they thought they forgot our Mom’s medicines at home and our Dad took buses all over Atlantic City at night with our sister to look if he could get the medicines for our Mom at any pharmacy he could find.  This was just a few years back so he would have been almost 90 at that time or in his late 80’s.  He was so worried about our Mom. Luckily they did pack her medicines and found them but he was so concerned for her.

Our Dad has so much love for our Mom, and each one of us girls, Vanaja, Shobha, Kalpana, and Chitra.

There are not enough words to describe how wonderful and amazing our Dad and all his accomplishments are.  He worked his whole entire life for everything he earned and he did a damn good job.  From a little boy who was the youngest of nine, who lost his mother at an early age, who grew up in a village, to a man that went to med school, married the most wonderful woman, and gave us all the most wonderful, beautiful sisters, and built a wonderful life.  We applaud you along with Mommy.

We miss you and love you both Daddy and Mommy ♥️♥️.

Love always, Vanaja, Shobha, Kalpana, and Chitra.  Forever 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

P.S. Daddy don’t worry we’ll always take care of each other.  We know how worried you are about all of us.  Please always take care of Mommy and Mommy will always take care of you.  So will we.  We promise.  We love you and miss you. ❤️❤️

Mommy please hug and kiss Daddy for all of us girls.   We’re sending you both all the hugs and kisses in the world.

♥️

❤️❤️🩷🩷🩷🩷

Happy Anniversary Mommy and Daddy.

❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷 ( a heart to represent each one of us in our family ) This is a tribute to my beautiful, amazing parents, the light of our lives.

Please forgive me if my grammar is off or I don’t make sense at times.  I have been trying to find the right words to express my feelings.   I have written many different versions of what i want to say but it’s hard to encompass it all here. I will never be able to do them justice but i will keep trying everyday.

Daddy: A H Keshava Reddy July 25, 1930-December 21, 2024

Mommy: M T Vishalakshamma Reddy

May 10, 1938 -January 7, 2025

Happy Anniversary Mommy and Daddy 🩷🩷.   I love you both more than humanly possible.    Today marks 66 years that you two created our family.  Our parents’ love has spanned three continents, three countries, and six and a half decades.  Throughout the years you have created a foundation for our family that is built on kindness, compassion, respect, and above all, love.   You have showered us with an abundance of love.   We are forever grateful to you and there is no higher honor than being your child.   Thank you Mommy and Daddy for everything you have sacrificed and worked so hard for.

This is to honor our parents and also pay tribute to their lives.  They’re such amazing parents.  They have taken care of us all our lives and still continue to watch over and guide us even though we can’t see them, we feel their presence.   There is no deeper love than the love we share as a family.   And us girls will continue that love for each other and our parents.

They have stood by each other through the ups and downs of life.

They definitely could not be separated that is why once our Dad left us, our Mom followed.  Two and half weeks apart.   In the past few years we witnessed the deepest, most beautiful love there ever was that has been building up for years.  Our father tirelessly took care of our mother through her dementia, diabetes, and kidney disease.  He was the only one that could at times get her to eat, take her pills, walk her around, and just sat together just smiling at each other.   When our Mom couldn’t remember our names, she still showed us how much love she had for us.   She would laugh when we told her we were her daughters but her actions were just like they were all of our lives.  She hugged us, she told us she loved us, and she would blow us kisses when we were leaving.  The one person she never needed help with remembering was our Dad.  She looked at him with the biggest smile and so much love as he did right back at her.  Their connection in those moments was pure happiness and love.  Something out of a fairytale.  You could just see it in both of their faces how much love they have for each other.   That has spanned over all these decades and through all life has thrown at them.

They both came from villages in India, both graduated from college.  Both left their families and only had each other to lean on and support.  I know they both missed their families back home.  And the passing of their loved ones affected them greatly.  But through their resilience they raised four daughters and gave them so much love and provided for them, and taught them how valuable life and family is.  They took nothing for granted, they worked hard for everything.  They both did.  I remember my Dad saying he would be nothing without my Mom.  And that is so true.  They worked together and created our home full of love, our safe place.   Our parents were both strong willed and brave.   They both worked tirelessly everyday of their lives.  We can never capture through words what our parents meant to us and how extraordinary and loving they are.  But we will never stop showing the world how amazing these two souls are.

Thank you Mommy and Daddy for giving us girls the two most amazing parents and building this life for us where we have each other to live this life with side by side.  Thank you for the greatest gift, our family.

And PS, Daddy don’t worry about us we’ll take care of each other just like I promised you all those years ago.  I know how much you worried about us especially Kalpana and Shobha.  But we’ll take care of them.  I know how tired you and Mommy were.  Mommy and Daddy take care of each other and please stay with us forever and make sure our family is together always and forever in every lifetime and for eternity.

Always and forever our family🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️

Happy Anniversary Daddy and Mommy

Love always and forever,

Vanaja, Shobha, Kalpana, and Chitra