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Amy Tonkinson, on May 20, 2015, of Washington Twp. Age 29. Devoted mother of Andrew Ryan Elcess. Beloved daughter of William J. and Linda (nee Stoughton). Dear sister of Bill. Loving granddaughter of Martha and the late Frank Stoughton and the late Betty and Jules Tonkinson. She is also survived by many loving Aunts, unclesContinue Reading
Amy Tonkinson, on May 20, 2015, of Washington Twp. Age 29. Devoted mother of Andrew Ryan Elcess. Beloved daughter of William J. and Linda (nee Stoughton). Dear sister of Bill. Loving granddaughter of Martha and the late Frank Stoughton and the late Betty and Jules Tonkinson. She is also survived by many loving Aunts, uncles and cousins.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend her viewing Wednesday 8:15 – 10:15 AM at the Egizi Funeral Home, 119 Ganttown Road, Washington Twp. Mass of Christian Burial 12:00 pm at St. Charles Borromeo RC Church, Washington Twp. Interment All Saints Cemetery, Newfield.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Amy’s memory may be made to Be The Match Foundation, 4338½ Boone Street, Philadelphia, PA 19128. Condolences may be shared with the family at www.egizifuneral.com.
“A Life Well Lived
Is Worth Remembering”
Debbie McGee
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Linda, Bill, Andrew, Bill and Extended Family..Our deepest Sympathy , May God Help You Though This Difficult Pain...Bobby and Debbie McGee
Cryssi Jeffries
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I've never met such a genuine person. Was Amy perfect? No, and she didn't pretend to be. She blurted out her flaws to anyone who'd listen and follow the confession with a smile. I've seen Amy angry, I've seen Amy cry, but both were always short lived and usually followed by laughter. She was genuinely happy for her friends (which were many) and she was genuinely heartbroken for them as well. I moved in 2007 and the first few weeks I was here Amy called me every. single. day. We had just finished a semester at CCC when I moved and we were so used to talking every day that it was a habit. My cousin would know it was her as soon as the phone rang and she'd say, "Let me guess, Tonka?" The phone calls may have gotten less frequent over the past several years, but Amy was always one of the first to reach out when something happened in my life. She messaged me a novel on my wedding day! They say there is nothing in the world like your childhood friends and although Amy and I didn't meet until high school, she fits in that category to me, and there will never be another like her.
My prayers are with the Tonkinson family, Andrew, and her extended family and friends. There are no words to soothe an ache like this, and I wouldn't dare try. But I will say that her sweet soul is finally at peace. <3
With love,
Cryssi Jeffries
Alycia Dattilo
left a message on May 21, 2015:
Amy always had a smile on her face and helped anyone with anything. Even when she was fighting her own demons she wouldn't hesitate to help others. I will miss her more than words can express and I pray for her family and son. My heart is broken over this news and I wish I had one more chance to talk to her and help her during her fight. Amy I will never forget you or our memories. To the Tonkinson family I'm so sorry and you are in my thoughts, prayers, and heart.
Love Always,
Alycia xoxo
Gina Pelle
left a message on May 21, 2015:
I am so deeply sorry & saddened by your loss!! May the grace of God be with you all during this difficult time! RIP Amy! :heart:
Gina Pelle and family
andrea palestini
left a message on May 21, 2015:
no matter what this amazing woman was going through she lit up a room with a beautiful smile that is embedded is everyone's mind. ....I'm am grateful to have that picture of her in my memories. ....love always, Andrea Palestini & family
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Teri vogt
left a message on May 28, 2015:
Bill and the Tonkinson family: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Amy in your amazing family. Although I just met you all at the Philadelphia Walk+Run I was so amazed and impressed by your family and wonderful network. There is so much love there. I hope you lift each other up at this very sad time.
Serena Hale
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Amy...i still cant accept to hear that you are gone mama!! You were such an amazingly beautiful person with a huge heart :heart: although we have gained a beautiful angel, you will missed so much!!! R.i.p. Amy!!! Xoxoxo :kiss:
Donna Azzarano
left a message on May 28, 2015:
my heartfelt sympathy to you both Bill and Linda on the loss of your beautiful daughter Amy. Although I didn't know her, the wonderful testimonies on here show how she touched so many lives. My prayers for you both (along with Linda's mom Martha) and her family that you all find peace. May God's angel's surround you all.
Lady-Marie Hernandez
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Deepest condolences to the Tonkinson family.. Amy was a special girl with an amazing heart. I still remember her first day at work, this little petite gorgeous blonde who looked more like a model than a waitress. She worked hard everyday, and spoke of her little boy everyday. I remember when her son and her parents came to visit, her eyes lit up as bright as Ive ever seen. You were too good to go Am, RIP.
Gina
left a message on May 22, 2015:
My deepest condolences to her baby boy, family, & many of friends. She will be greatly missed. Amy always had a smile on her face and always was there to listen and lend a helping hand. :sparkling_heart: Gina Westcott & Family
mary clinton
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Our aimers,this little ,Blondie chubby cheeks ,Amy was the sweet silly and sunshine all wrapped in one . As a little one we all knew this little one is special ,when I think of her I smile and think of her and pop pop Stoughton,she'd sit beside him and eat as thou she had the appetite of pop at the navy yard .her partner in crime was Jennie ,they did everything together ,and of course she was the miss bossy,they danced ,played ,and just about everyday with each other.at times.all the cousins were at grands and they played house and of course Amy was always the mom,even if she wasn't there no one claimed trove be mom because that is was Amy's game ,now our little girl will be in our hearts forever and will always be Andrews mom,in our hearts and our souls forever,our Amy so young ,so loved ,be in the arms of the angels.Aunt Mary
Joan Novak
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Bill, Linda & Family, God bless you & help you through this unbelievable loss. My deepest sympathy, Joan Novak
anonymous
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I didn't know Amy but I just wanted to say a my prayers and thoughts are with you during this time God bless you all
andrea palestini
left a message on May 21, 2015:
From our family to yours
bernadette giorgi
left a message on June 6, 2015:
I am so sorry to just learn that you lost your precious daughter. My God comfort you and give you His Peace.
Your neighbor and friend,
Bernadette
Jared Merlie
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I remember sitting in CCD class at the Clinton and McCluskey houses with Amy when we were in elementary school and she always knew how to light up a room even as little kids. It is a sad time knowing that a childhood friend was taking from this earth so early. My thoughts and prayers are with the Tonkinson family.
Liz King
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Amy was just as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside, she had the biggest heart and always a big smile. One of my favorite memories of Amy was last May after I was in a terrible accident and couldn't leave my house she came over every single day for about a month, Andrew and amy coming over really lifted my spirits. She was the best friend a person could have, she was always there for her friends and family. She was so caring she understood how big of a difference she made by making sure she came over and kept me company after the tragedy I just had went through. She was so compassionate, loyal, smart, an amazing mother, funny , truly I will never meet another person that can even come close to how amazing Amy was all around. She had her struggles and unfortunately she was taken from Andrew, her family , and her friends way too soon. Now she can finally rest and be at peace, the struggles are over for this beautiful soul.
I love you so much
Liz
lynette hesh
left a message on June 2, 2015:
Lit a candle in memory of Amy Tonkinson
Alice
left a message on May 21, 2015:
Amy was always special to me always smiled and gave me a hug. She alway brought life to a room. RIP Amy forever in my heart!
john magri
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I remember the first night Amy took me to her house to meet her parents.Bill and Linda just sat there , wondering , omg, what has my daughter gotten herself into.....we were a total mismatch as freinds, but, our friendship ran deeper than a well....I just didn't have one freind,I had a whole family as time went on.....ill never forget Amy!!!!!!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dan Ricci
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Deepest condolences to the whole Tonkinson family. I worked with Amy at the pizza shop for several years where we became friends. The countless tributes I have seen over the last day are all accurate describing how great she was & how much she offered the world. She will be missed greatly.
Al Kleister
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Countless memories and laughs at the Spot in Glassboro, where I met you. Tapping people on their shoulder and ducking the other way to make them look at some random person or the wall. Haha You used to crack up at that.
Rest In Peace Amy... As I'll always say. You are such a beautiful girl and even a sweeter person. I am truly grateful that I was able to know you, call you a friend, and share time on this earth with you.
Anne Orminski
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Bill and Linda...I wanted to offer my deepest sympathy on the passing of your daughter. Wishing you peace through the love you share as a family. May God bless her and keep her in his embrace. In deepest sympathy...
Anne Orminski(Diane Donofrio's sister-in-law...we met many times as well as all the Penn State games. Very sorry for your loss.
Dale Billstein
left a message on May 26, 2015:
So sorry Bill & Linda plus all relatives. Met Amy last month will never forget her wonderful smile........Dale
Joe & Joanne DeFeo
left a message on May 28, 2015:
Dear Bill, Linda, Billy & Family:
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy for the death of Amy. We are so sorry you have to endure this pain because no parent should have to loose a child or sibling and Amy was taken from you way too soon. We realize having gone through a similar situation there's really no words to express comfort at this time. But fortunately for Amy she is now at peace! You tried and tried and tried to help her over and over and over again but unfortunately Amy was plagued by such a demon that even she couldn't help herself. It's not going to be easy dealing with her death but the pain will lesson in time and become easier and more manageable. You'll be with us in our thoughts and prayers. If you need to talk please don't hesitate to reach out. We are here for you.
Love,
Joe & Joanne DeFeo
Maureen Moscinski
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Lit a candle in memory of Amy Tonkinson
Beverly Sambor
left a message on May 21, 2015:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. We hope that the love of family and friends will comfort you in the days ahead.
Ray and Beverly Sambor & Family
Betty Jane Gallagher
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Linda, Bill, Andrew & Family. I can still see Amy at Little Johns birthday party. Still a baby and shy. Words could not express how deep the sorrow. You will always be in our prayers. She's on a new journey and will be with you forever. Please remember to lean on family and friends as you go forward. Love you! BJ, John & Family.
gina apadula
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Linda, Bill and the Tonkinson family: My deepest sympathies on the loss of your Amy and my hope and prayers that God will help you through your pain and sorrow.
Gina Apadula
Joseph Hunter
left a message on June 4, 2015:
John , so sorry for your loss
Mark and Marie Hozey
left a message on May 29, 2015:
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your daughter Amy. May God bless you at this very difficult time. Amy went to the Jr.Prom with our son Mark Hozey
mike terreri
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Our deepest sympathy to the Tonkinson family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mike Terreri and family.
debbie cascio
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Our heartfelt condolences to the Tonkinson family. Amy is a beautiful, loving person deeply adored by our family. The memories we share are numerous and truly close to and will stay forever in our hearts. Heaven has gained a beautiful Angel who will embraced by our lord with open arms. May god bless your family and her little boy with strength, comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Our hugs to you, Amy will be sadly missed!
Denise Huckel
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I have known Amy since 6th grade when I moved back to Washington Twp, one of the first memories I have of our friendship was at her sleepover birthday party when we all stayed up all night and watched the movie Clueless! Over the past several years I have been able to keep in touch through Facebook...We both were pregnant at the same time, both had son's named Andrew that were born in July. I loved seeing the pictures of her and Andrew and could see the love and how much of an amazing mother she was to him. My thoughts are with her entire family, closest friends, and her sweet little boy. It truly breaks my heart that she was taken from us too soon. Rest in Peace, Amy. You will be missed by so many.
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Debbie McGee
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Linda, Bill, Andrew, Bill and Extended Family..Our deepest Sympathy , May God Help You Though This Difficult Pain...Bobby and Debbie McGee
Cryssi Jeffries
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I've never met such a genuine person. Was Amy perfect? No, and she didn't pretend to be. She blurted out her flaws to anyone who'd listen and follow the confession with a smile. I've seen Amy angry, I've seen Amy cry, but both were always short lived and usually followed by laughter. She was genuinely happy for her friends (which were many) and she was genuinely heartbroken for them as well. I moved in 2007 and the first few weeks I was here Amy called me every. single. day. We had just finished a semester at CCC when I moved and we were so used to talking every day that it was a habit. My cousin would know it was her as soon as the phone rang and she'd say, "Let me guess, Tonka?" The phone calls may have gotten less frequent over the past several years, but Amy was always one of the first to reach out when something happened in my life. She messaged me a novel on my wedding day! They say there is nothing in the world like your childhood friends and although Amy and I didn't meet until high school, she fits in that category to me, and there will never be another like her.
My prayers are with the Tonkinson family, Andrew, and her extended family and friends. There are no words to soothe an ache like this, and I wouldn't dare try. But I will say that her sweet soul is finally at peace. <3
With love,
Cryssi Jeffries
Alycia Dattilo
left a message on May 21, 2015:
Amy always had a smile on her face and helped anyone with anything. Even when she was fighting her own demons she wouldn't hesitate to help others. I will miss her more than words can express and I pray for her family and son. My heart is broken over this news and I wish I had one more chance to talk to her and help her during her fight. Amy I will never forget you or our memories. To the Tonkinson family I'm so sorry and you are in my thoughts, prayers, and heart.
Love Always,
Alycia xoxo
Gina Pelle
left a message on May 21, 2015:
I am so deeply sorry & saddened by your loss!! May the grace of God be with you all during this difficult time! RIP Amy! :heart:
Gina Pelle and family
andrea palestini
left a message on May 21, 2015:
no matter what this amazing woman was going through she lit up a room with a beautiful smile that is embedded is everyone's mind. ....I'm am grateful to have that picture of her in my memories. ....love always, Andrea Palestini & family
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Teri vogt
left a message on May 28, 2015:
Bill and the Tonkinson family: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Amy in your amazing family. Although I just met you all at the Philadelphia Walk+Run I was so amazed and impressed by your family and wonderful network. There is so much love there. I hope you lift each other up at this very sad time.
Serena Hale
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Amy...i still cant accept to hear that you are gone mama!! You were such an amazingly beautiful person with a huge heart :heart: although we have gained a beautiful angel, you will missed so much!!! R.i.p. Amy!!! Xoxoxo :kiss:
Donna Azzarano
left a message on May 28, 2015:
my heartfelt sympathy to you both Bill and Linda on the loss of your beautiful daughter Amy. Although I didn't know her, the wonderful testimonies on here show how she touched so many lives. My prayers for you both (along with Linda's mom Martha) and her family that you all find peace. May God's angel's surround you all.
Lady-Marie Hernandez
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Deepest condolences to the Tonkinson family.. Amy was a special girl with an amazing heart. I still remember her first day at work, this little petite gorgeous blonde who looked more like a model than a waitress. She worked hard everyday, and spoke of her little boy everyday. I remember when her son and her parents came to visit, her eyes lit up as bright as Ive ever seen. You were too good to go Am, RIP.
Gina
left a message on May 22, 2015:
My deepest condolences to her baby boy, family, & many of friends. She will be greatly missed. Amy always had a smile on her face and always was there to listen and lend a helping hand. :sparkling_heart: Gina Westcott & Family
mary clinton
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Our aimers,this little ,Blondie chubby cheeks ,Amy was the sweet silly and sunshine all wrapped in one . As a little one we all knew this little one is special ,when I think of her I smile and think of her and pop pop Stoughton,she'd sit beside him and eat as thou she had the appetite of pop at the navy yard .her partner in crime was Jennie ,they did everything together ,and of course she was the miss bossy,they danced ,played ,and just about everyday with each other.at times.all the cousins were at grands and they played house and of course Amy was always the mom,even if she wasn't there no one claimed trove be mom because that is was Amy's game ,now our little girl will be in our hearts forever and will always be Andrews mom,in our hearts and our souls forever,our Amy so young ,so loved ,be in the arms of the angels.Aunt Mary
Joan Novak
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Bill, Linda & Family, God bless you & help you through this unbelievable loss. My deepest sympathy, Joan Novak
anonymous
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I didn't know Amy but I just wanted to say a my prayers and thoughts are with you during this time God bless you all
andrea palestini
left a message on May 21, 2015:
From our family to yours
bernadette giorgi
left a message on June 6, 2015:
I am so sorry to just learn that you lost your precious daughter. My God comfort you and give you His Peace.
Your neighbor and friend,
Bernadette
Jared Merlie
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I remember sitting in CCD class at the Clinton and McCluskey houses with Amy when we were in elementary school and she always knew how to light up a room even as little kids. It is a sad time knowing that a childhood friend was taking from this earth so early. My thoughts and prayers are with the Tonkinson family.
Liz King
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Amy was just as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside, she had the biggest heart and always a big smile. One of my favorite memories of Amy was last May after I was in a terrible accident and couldn't leave my house she came over every single day for about a month, Andrew and amy coming over really lifted my spirits. She was the best friend a person could have, she was always there for her friends and family. She was so caring she understood how big of a difference she made by making sure she came over and kept me company after the tragedy I just had went through. She was so compassionate, loyal, smart, an amazing mother, funny , truly I will never meet another person that can even come close to how amazing Amy was all around. She had her struggles and unfortunately she was taken from Andrew, her family , and her friends way too soon. Now she can finally rest and be at peace, the struggles are over for this beautiful soul.
I love you so much
Liz
lynette hesh
left a message on June 2, 2015:
Lit a candle in memory of Amy Tonkinson
Alice
left a message on May 21, 2015:
Amy was always special to me always smiled and gave me a hug. She alway brought life to a room. RIP Amy forever in my heart!
john magri
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I remember the first night Amy took me to her house to meet her parents.Bill and Linda just sat there , wondering , omg, what has my daughter gotten herself into.....we were a total mismatch as freinds, but, our friendship ran deeper than a well....I just didn't have one freind,I had a whole family as time went on.....ill never forget Amy!!!!!!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dan Ricci
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Deepest condolences to the whole Tonkinson family. I worked with Amy at the pizza shop for several years where we became friends. The countless tributes I have seen over the last day are all accurate describing how great she was & how much she offered the world. She will be missed greatly.
Al Kleister
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Countless memories and laughs at the Spot in Glassboro, where I met you. Tapping people on their shoulder and ducking the other way to make them look at some random person or the wall. Haha You used to crack up at that.
Rest In Peace Amy... As I'll always say. You are such a beautiful girl and even a sweeter person. I am truly grateful that I was able to know you, call you a friend, and share time on this earth with you.
Anne Orminski
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Bill and Linda...I wanted to offer my deepest sympathy on the passing of your daughter. Wishing you peace through the love you share as a family. May God bless her and keep her in his embrace. In deepest sympathy...
Anne Orminski(Diane Donofrio's sister-in-law...we met many times as well as all the Penn State games. Very sorry for your loss.
Dale Billstein
left a message on May 26, 2015:
So sorry Bill & Linda plus all relatives. Met Amy last month will never forget her wonderful smile........Dale
Joe & Joanne DeFeo
left a message on May 28, 2015:
Dear Bill, Linda, Billy & Family:
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy for the death of Amy. We are so sorry you have to endure this pain because no parent should have to loose a child or sibling and Amy was taken from you way too soon. We realize having gone through a similar situation there's really no words to express comfort at this time. But fortunately for Amy she is now at peace! You tried and tried and tried to help her over and over and over again but unfortunately Amy was plagued by such a demon that even she couldn't help herself. It's not going to be easy dealing with her death but the pain will lesson in time and become easier and more manageable. You'll be with us in our thoughts and prayers. If you need to talk please don't hesitate to reach out. We are here for you.
Love,
Joe & Joanne DeFeo
Maureen Moscinski
left a message on May 23, 2015:
Lit a candle in memory of Amy Tonkinson
Beverly Sambor
left a message on May 21, 2015:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. We hope that the love of family and friends will comfort you in the days ahead.
Ray and Beverly Sambor & Family
Betty Jane Gallagher
left a message on May 22, 2015:
Linda, Bill, Andrew & Family. I can still see Amy at Little Johns birthday party. Still a baby and shy. Words could not express how deep the sorrow. You will always be in our prayers. She's on a new journey and will be with you forever. Please remember to lean on family and friends as you go forward. Love you! BJ, John & Family.
gina apadula
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Linda, Bill and the Tonkinson family: My deepest sympathies on the loss of your Amy and my hope and prayers that God will help you through your pain and sorrow.
Gina Apadula
Joseph Hunter
left a message on June 4, 2015:
John , so sorry for your loss
Mark and Marie Hozey
left a message on May 29, 2015:
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your daughter Amy. May God bless you at this very difficult time. Amy went to the Jr.Prom with our son Mark Hozey
mike terreri
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Our deepest sympathy to the Tonkinson family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mike Terreri and family.
debbie cascio
left a message on May 26, 2015:
Our heartfelt condolences to the Tonkinson family. Amy is a beautiful, loving person deeply adored by our family. The memories we share are numerous and truly close to and will stay forever in our hearts. Heaven has gained a beautiful Angel who will embraced by our lord with open arms. May god bless your family and her little boy with strength, comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Our hugs to you, Amy will be sadly missed!
Denise Huckel
left a message on May 22, 2015:
I have known Amy since 6th grade when I moved back to Washington Twp, one of the first memories I have of our friendship was at her sleepover birthday party when we all stayed up all night and watched the movie Clueless! Over the past several years I have been able to keep in touch through Facebook...We both were pregnant at the same time, both had son's named Andrew that were born in July. I loved seeing the pictures of her and Andrew and could see the love and how much of an amazing mother she was to him. My thoughts are with her entire family, closest friends, and her sweet little boy. It truly breaks my heart that she was taken from us too soon. Rest in Peace, Amy. You will be missed by so many.
~Denise Huckel
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