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Alfred J. Buonpastore

May 28, 1932 - April 25, 2014
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Our Lady of Hope Parish St. Agnes Church
701 Little Gloucester Rd.
Blackwood, NJ 08012
Wednesday 4/30, 11:00 am

Alfred J. Buonpastore On April 25, 2014 of Blackwood. Age 81. Beloved husband of Eleanor N. (nee Venturella). Devoted father of Gina Squilla (Anthony), Lisa Scarpinato and Marianne Buonpastore. Loving grandfather of Christie, Gia, Nikki, Salvatore, Brianna and Marina. Dear brother of Jemma Ermilio, Margaret Locantore, Dominic (Mary), Tony (Nina), Rocky and the late Nick,Continue Reading

Julie Kratchman left a message on April 30, 2014:
Ellie, My deepest condolences to you and your family. May your memories, family and love sustain you during this difficult time. Julie Kratchman
Yolanda, Jim & Jimmy Anderson, left a message on April 28, 2014:
Our deepest sympathy to Al's beautiful family. What a Legacy he leaves behind. His memory will forever live on in each & every one them. And through his magnificent cook books!! ........ Explaining the times, .......the dishes, .....the memories, .........who in his family liked his special dishes, etc.! Loved talking to Al all the time about food & all the olden days!!!! But he'll now be cooking for our King while he's in his Mansion! Our thoughts & prayers are with his family, while we celebrate Al's past & new life. May God's strength carry you through these difficult days & give you the comfort to know that he will always be with you in spirit.
Gia Scarpinato left a message on April 27, 2014:
There are so many wonderful memories and thoughts that I can share about my grandfather because all of the memories I have with him were always great ones. Even in his last days, he was teaching me how to make his famous clams casino, which will never be as good as his. He was always there to make people happy, shower people with food and gifts, good conversation, laughter and of course lots of love. One memory that I keep thinking of is when we all went to dinner for his birthday. We surprised him with a limo and the look on his face with priceless. I keep picturing him laughing and clapping his hands as I often remember him doing. He was so excited that we were all going to be together for him on his birthday. I remember his toast that he gave to everyone at the table and him expressing his love for all of us, which made most of us cry, was a feeling that he often made us feel. He always made us feel loved and cared about us in every way. The way that he was towards all of us, being the rock of our family is something that I will miss most. I know that he wants us to all to always be together and never forget the true meaning of family. He taught me some many things, or little pearls as he would say, that is something that I will remember forever. He always inspired and supported all of us to do big things and I know that none of us will let him down. The love that he had for my grandmother was unbelievable and I am so grateful that I got to see first hand a love like that. I am so lucky to have a grandfather like you and to have the family that I have now because of you. None of us would be who we are today if it wasn't for you. Thank you for all of your teachings and your unconditional love through out my life. We will keep you proud Gramps and we know that your watching over us. Dont worry we will take care of Grammy. Heaven has gained another perfect angel. I love you so much!!! Love Always, Gia
Anthony Squilla left a message on April 27, 2014:
My Father-in-law was the kindest, most gentle man I have ever had the privilege to meet and share 32 years of life with. He has taught me how a man should love and respect his wife, how a man should love and respect his children and grandchildren. Al's family meant everything to him. One of his greatest joys in life besides going to Atlantic City with his wife Eleanor was having his family sitting around his table at home enjoying his pasta and gravy and sipping on some wine and sharing some of his life moments which I loved. I call him Dad because I met Al when I was 16 years old and Al had a huge impact on my life as a young man growing up. When Al gave his daughter Gina to me in marriage Al made me promise him that I would take care of her. Just a few days ago I had the opportunity to tell him that again and Al told me that he was grateful. Dad I will miss you, I love you, may you RIP. Your son-in-law, Anthony
Brianna Squilla left a message on April 27, 2014:
I think it was on Thanksgiving when Gramps said that he loved seeing all of his kids and us cousins together and talking and laughing and having a good time with each other. He loved nothing more than when his family was together and that made me so happy, just knowing how happy he was whenever he was surrounded by his family. We are so lucky and blessed to have such an amazing family because of him and Gram, and I know his love and kindness will always be remembered by us all. Grandpa was a one of a kind man who would do absolutely anything for his family at a moment's notice. Whether it was feeding us, or giving us clothes when we were little when we needed PJs to change into, giving me his clarinet, and even appreciating my photography and saying how beautiful my pictures looked. Even if it was a picture of a rock he'd say how beautiful it was, and even that, would make my day. And how beautiful it truly is to have someone that admires what you do and the person that you are. He taught us all important lessons as a family. I know I, along with the rest of our family, would not be the people we are today, if it weren't for Grandpa's tremendous love and affection towards us. I love you so much Gramp and I promise I'm going to do great on these finals because you'll always be there watching over me! Love always your granddaughter, Brianna
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Regina left a message on April 28, 2014:
My sincere condolences to the Buonpastore Family. May all find comfort in God's word at this difficult time of loss. (Revelation 21:3,4)
Greg and Kim Altamuro left a message on May 1, 2014:
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